So far (2 weeks today), Philip, the drunk that was delivered to me from detox has been a stellar example of someone who expresses willingness. He's called me every day (sometimes several times to reach me since he can call out and I can't reach him by calling in). He was delivered to and from a coffee shop to start into the steps, delivered to my home group on Saturday - he's doing the deal like his life depends on it.
But, consequences can be a bitch.
He has stomach ulcers and a hole in his stomach (isn't that what stomach ulcers are - holes?) that are going to require surgery soon. There's no question that his health problems are a direct result of his drinking habits.
Yet, he's already seen how major discomfort and life threatening illness is not enough to stop the idea of drinking - even given the most seemingly trivial excuse for drinking (his feelings were hurt...).
I realize that, by comparison, I don't have any problems today.
I am one seriously blessed dude...
he was pretty broken up about his relapse
7 years ago
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At first I thought that was a sea anemone but then after reading the post, I see that it must be an ulcer with the stomach villi around the hole. Nasty looking thing. I'm glad that you are working with Philip. I hope that he stays the course.
I see and feel those things just about every day.
I'm glad you are there for him. I hope he continues to do well.
That is one seriously gross photo.
Seriously blessed...yep!
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